

Paperback: 184 pages
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications; 1 edition (August 1, 2012)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1608822133
ISBN-13: 978-1608822133
Product Dimensions: 0.5 x 7.8 x 10.2 inches
Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (78 customer reviews)
Best Sellers Rank: #22,375 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #6 in Books > Parenting & Relationships > Family Health #30 in Books > Teens > Personal Health #41 in Books > Parenting & Relationships > Parenting > Parenting Girls

This author does make a lot of good points and really does help us to appreciate our girl's point of view. I've learned a lot!On the other hand, I felt it's teaching us to be a loving, well-disciplined, tongue-biting . . . doormat. The ultimate goal here is to be a safe person to come to - to go from being an authority to being an adviser while our daughters do what they're going to do and trusting that ultimately they're going to ride out the storm and become respectable, responsible people.Yes - she does talk about saying, "No" and having rules, but to be honest, my stomach was churning when she cited an example of a mom who asked her daughter if she was having sex, and when the answer was "Yes, and I want birth-control pills" - this mom had the "audacity" of looking shocked. The example goes on to tell how the MOTHER had to come back an apologize for not being safe and accepting enough. They resolved things with the mom just standing by and letting her daughter engage in promiscuous behavior (helping get pills and keeping the house "off limits). Great . . .I'll be honest - I'm still reading, hoping perhaps that I'm going to find something in here that talks about making time to teach values, expecting responsible behavior, and holding our kids accountable to family rules since they are benefiting from parental sacrifices. I also haven't yet found anything about filling our daughter's lives with positive influences/people (church, good books, role models) that can help them start making and benefiting from positive choices sooner than later.I think sometimes it's just as important to set unpopular boundaries that protect our kids as it is to be "safe." It's a balancing act - and not an easy one.
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