

Paperback: 240 pages
Publisher: Routledge (September 6, 2016)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1629561452
ISBN-13: 978-1629561455
Product Dimensions: 0.8 x 5.8 x 8.8 inches
Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
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This book is truly a beacon in the darkness, both for parents who fear all screens and fruitlessly try to keep kids away from them, and for parents who may be worried by the amount or type of screen-based activities in which their kids engage, but remain hands-off and permissive because they don't know how to address it. Our family has screen-time limits for our school-aged kids, but so often these limits were leading to tantrums and power struggles because they were arbitrary. These limits lumped silly videos and games together with coding tutorials, historical research, and other far more useful online activities. In today's world, that simplistic approach just doesn't work. It makes kids feel bad about enjoying technology, when in fact we all use it multiple times a day (both for "redeeming" activities, and just for entertainment). Further, arbitrary limits set kids up to "cheat" when parents aren't looking-- and to lack the healthy awareness and guidance they need to navigate the online social world. It has been so helpful to approach technology in a new, more supportive way: taking an interest in the games of skill that our kids enjoy; using beloved characters from videos to discuss social skills in the real world; having open conversations about language and content that make videos and sites inappropriate for kids. I haven't even finished this book yet, and already I've had an incredible conversation with my daughter about a seemingly "silly" or "dumb" series of videos she kept talking about incessantly at the dinner table. It turns out that her interest in these videos was a way of working out an issue at school that was too hard to talk about directly. Once I took an interest in her interest, we were able to get to the bottom of things.
This is a must read for any and all parents. This is a must read for all educators. This is a must read for anyone who engages and interacts with children on any level. This current generation is being know as digital natives, a generation that has never known life without computers and the digital world. The parents of this generation are known as digital immigrants. We did not grow up with this level of technology. As parents of this generation we have of course adopted the digital realm as it has evolved into our everyday lives. Devorah Heitner does a fabulous job outlining and addressing all the nuances of raising these digital natives. While, these digital natives speak the language and have a natural ability to navigate the digital realm, this doesn't always equate to doing the right thing. Screenwise promotes parental mentoring over monitoring. The emphasis for parents is to teach good digital citizenship just as we were raised to be good citizens. That is not something our children were innately born with :). Just as we taught them to share and take turns, we need to teach them the ins and outs of how to interact on their devices. With years of field work, she reports right from the mouths of children, parents and educators. She sources experts, herself included, on all the various parenting issues we are facing with raising our children with technology. The book is dense with talking points, ideas, tips and conversations we all need to be having. Most importantly, she addresses our children's concerns with their parent's technology use. We can't run from technology, we can't hide our children from the digital age. It is here to stay and it is only going to expand. We must get on board.
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