

Hardcover: 256 pages
Publisher: Random House (July 5, 2016)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0812994825
ISBN-13: 978-0812994827
Product Dimensions: 5.8 x 0.7 x 8.6 inches
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After reading Hisham Matar's two novels, each featuring a protagonist who is a young Libyan boy whose life is disrupted by the abduction/disappearance of a father or father figure from his life, it almost comes as a relief to turn to this memoir in which Matar finally confronts head on the central trauma of his life: the abduction of his own father, a prominent Libyan dissident, by the Qadaffi regime, when he was a 19-year-old university student.By then, Matar and his family had been living in exile for a decade, an experience that he recounts in this book. At boarding school in England, the future novelist had to pretend to be the son of an Egyptian mother and an American mother, and his classmates included the son of a Qadaffi government minister. It was a strange, strained existence, as they watched their fellow exiles murdered or kidnapped, but Jaballa Matar only became more determined to fight the Libyan regime. When he vanished, it was years before his wife and two sons learned that he was still alive and held in a Libyan prison, and a few years later, word stopped coming altogether. But did he die in jail, or had he just vanished into an even deeper form of imprisonment, from which it was impossible to bribe a jailer to get word out? Until the fall of Qadaffi -- in which some of Hisham Matar's relatives participated, as he recounts here -- they would never even have a chance to find out, even though this memoir includes some creepy encounters with Qadaffi's son, Seif el-Islam, who promises to try to find out (as if he doesn't know already...)But once Qadaffi is dead, Hisham can finally try to find out whether his father has survived.
In 2010, Desmond Tutu issued a statement calling on Muammar Qaddafi "to urgently clarify the fate and whereabouts of Jaballa Matar." (It was a bold move by Archbishop Tutu; Quaddafi's influence in Africa was such that not even Nelson Mandela would do or say anything to annoy him.) Jaballa Matar had fought against the Italians in liberating Libya, then served in the Libyan Army under King Idris, and for a time after Qaddafi seized power he was a Libyan diplomat to the United Nations. But repulsed by the increasing tyranny of Qaddafi, Jaballa Matar became one of the most prominent Libyan dissidents. He moved his family to Cairo while he himself began organizing rebel forces just outside of Libya in Chad. Then, in March 1990, Egyptian secret police (on orders from Hosni Mubarak) abducted him from his apartment in Cairo and delivered him to Qaddafi's operatives, who took him to Libya and locked him away in Abu Salim, Qaddafi's infamous prison for critics and dissidents. It is known that Jaballa Matar was still in Abu Salim in April 1996, but after that he disappeared. At the time of Desmond Tutu's appeal to Qaddafi in 2010, there was no public information about whether Jaballa Matar was alive or dead, though most strongly suspected it was the latter.Hisham Matar, the author of this important book, is the younger son of Jaballa Matar. Hisham spent much of his boyhood in Libya, but left in 1979 when his father extracted the family from the country. For most of his adult life, Hisham has lived in or around London. While he is the author of two acclaimed novels, his foremost project in life has been to find out what happened to his father and to lobby worldwide on behalf of other Libyan dissidents.
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